Im so glad. I hate feeling his way because he is so good to me yet all I worry about is am I now out of Gods perfect will?? At that time i was in college in a state and he was in another one doing residency. Your friends pray and seem to hear the same ‘yes.’ You’re sure, confident, ready.We want our stories to be linear and laid out, God-like insurance policies guarding our biggest decision yet. I wanted to be with that person-other half. Immediately, my heart began to get heavy with missing her, and I prayed a simple prayer: “God I miss her”. So we both know the Divine plan…but at the current time we are not communcating; however, that doesn’t negate the promise, it only means that in this season, the promise is not manifesting. He can’t stop looking at me, smiling at me, kissing me, hugging me. :) All I have to do is Listen! God word and will will never contradict his beliefs period. In 2010 I ran into him again at another event (he actually lives in another state) I even took a picture with him but he did not remember me. We hold on to what God does promise us, that He’ll never leave nor forsake us, that we’re to come to Him concerning EVERYTHING in prayer. Do exactly what you are continuing to do, seek the Lord and put Him first! As young as I may feel (late twenties), I’ve come to realized that thought I would love the Nicholas Sparks movie relationships and for someone to love me like is supposed to feel, I may or may not get that chance, but God is love. The same will happen for you – it will be so obvious that the Lord will speak loud and clear through you knowing GOD’S love for you in a new way through him. It couldn’t be. What were we thinking? I was so desperate for confirmation that I told God that the first person I saw wearing green that comes in at a certain door before a specific time is going to be my husband and the father of my children. ….And right before I met him, I was have a very hard year. Even those who are in wrong marriages because God already knows the choices we’re going to make and our choices are apart of his will because it was already predestined what we we’re going to do anyways. I’m seeking God first and if a husband is in the works for me, then as Jesus Christ said, “all other things will be added according to his will.” I don’t know any of you, but I love you all for sharing all of your stories and all of the positive feedback that we are giving each other here. I fell in love with a man who had all the qualities I wanted but he left me. It was completely devastating when it ended a few months before our wedding. He drys your tears. But really — any thoughts on the subject, or any decisions before then are purely speculation. Which at points became both frustrating and agitating because the way I see it it takes a lot more to stare at a person across the room the entire time you’re there than it does to actually approach them. thx 4. sharing ur testimony. It wasn’t him. My ex against my better judgment. I know when God is finished molding us so we may be better Christians AND husband and wife to each other then he will bring us together. Over the 24 years of discussing if we should stay together or not, he would say that he thought of me as a FRIEND. So in conclusion…I am so confused because although I have been to the Philippines and we actually met on Valentine’s Day (which I had also prayed as a confirmational sign that indeed came to pass) and I ended up proposing to her, we have since broken up, and haven’t spoken for almost a year now…I moved on after a while though it took about three or four months to get over the love I felt for her. You will have to work harder and do things better than you do now because you must have 100% consideration for another person now. 2. It’s a month-long course called Make The Most Of Your Single Life where we’re navigating really living our single lives well, and how to date well, and how to do it all in a way where we’re really trusting God, and believing His promises about our lives. I went to work and as I was putting my bags down I looked up and a box had the name Sterling on it. Thanks for the reminder that he said acknowledge him in ALL our ways. that He promises good gifts. I had prayed for him, for our future together, just for him to put a ring on another woman! His ways cannot fit into our boxed in thinking. I like how you mention that God doesn’t play matchmaker before hand, letting you know who you are supposed to marry. When we finally are together and on our way to marriage…I will revisit this blog and tell you that it can and did happen. So don’t sit around and wait for that to come to pass because it won’t. To my future husband, Even now, I am still going to hold out for you. I looked back at what I believe God had told me with regards to keeping his commandments and it appeared to be a promise with an order attached. instant. This is very encouraging. Cast all your care upon Him because He cares for you. Does God work on our timing? And I do believe it! I have had over 6 conformations about who I am going to Marry. Okay? When we ache for something more than Christ we run the risk of getting hurt. It would help me not to forget. Frankly, as both a logical and believing person, some of the things people have said in these comments are troubling. I enjoyed my life. We were friends for a whils, and all of the months leading up to the relationship I prayed and prayed “Lord, open or close this door. And that man isn’t your husband. Our eyes have to remain on Him and trust that he won’t let us drown in the ocean. Let me know…. A 4-week online course that will help you savor, enjoy, and truly make the most of your single life, all the while setting yourself up for amazing relationships (and marriage!) I had once dreamed that he had indeed married someone else, but when I woke up in the morning, I just thought it was the devil messing with my faith and I continued to believe he was “the one”. God telling us who we will marry isn’t a matter of forcing us, it’s God knowing what’s ahead and giving some of us a peek into that for whatever His reason. God said it, you must believe it. But I do know that God is so faithful. The part about the surprises and God wanting us on a different path definitely resonates, the past few months following the breakup have been the ones with the most honesty, life, and grace I’ve experienced in a long time. God wants your heart, not just your hands, because if … this is the part that gripped me. Would you mind sending me an email with this question in it? I can’t wait to find Her, whoever she is. He was studying to become a Minister of the gospel and I was on a whole different platform. 1, and "widowhood" in ver. This so needed to be said. Just to add to this story we are now engaged! 3 years I waited on him to “take his time” hoping he would just see that I am the one for him. I don’t think God would do lots of things that a husband does. (if you let Him.) The other thing is that I was only listening, and not using any of my other ways of discerning what God was doing. I feel like we should probably be friends. Again, I’m so so grateful that you took the time to read, and to reach out and share your story. My testimony, in short, is this…..I was minding my own business living my life, dating, dreaming about one day being married and having kids etc. On August 1st I had a revelation. In my case, I didn’t have a relationship with Davon when God revealed to me that he was to be my husband. If God said it He will perform it, even if one party “pulls a Jonah.” Turn your eyes to God so you’re heart may be prepared and eventually this relationship may be restored according to His Divine plan. It does not matter how things in the natural look for God is beyond the natural. Without getting into too many details. I’m so thankful for these words. I commented the same but i don’t know if it got submitted. He knelt and asked God for a wife..I kid you not..He walked out on God in protest when God revealed the girl. I feel like we need to be friends. (I said this was a long distance relationship, the truth is that is an understatement…She lives in the Philippines and I live in America) One day while at church during worship God (at least I believe it to have been his voice) said The reason I picked her was…_________ And He revealed to me the destiny and calling He was going to do in our lives as husband and wife…I would not have picked that particular calling or area of ministry…not if I had created a list of the top 100 areas of ministry I would like to do. Hi there! And each time I was granted with a dream or some other kind of affirmation that this guy was indeed the man I was going to marry. Wouldn’t it be boring if we all had the same testimony. He does NOT lie. At the time, I thought thats just the way it was supposed to be- something to grow on, learn from, and move on. God called Jonas to preach and Jonas had the free will to say no and God put him in a whale and then his answer was yes, lol. I find it odd that God would bypass my sister and tell my mother without telling my sister. =) We are now dating for 7 months. Long and short of it is we both didn’t think “logistically” things could happen so we spoke ever so often. I look forward to a Life full of love with my Soul Mate. Sometimes we just have to WAIT!!!!! My answer to this was always, “Of course!”I did pray for my husband, but not on a regular basis.It was usually when he had something going on or asked for prayer.I was rarely proactive in covering him in prayer.However the further I got in my walk with God, the more I understood how powerful and important prayer was concerning my husband. Not trying to rush the Lord but the wait is painful. We can see a similar situation with Abraham. Here’s why: If you truly believe in your heart that God spoke a word to you then you must hold steadfast to what you heard. Some of you go and say I asked God to reveal this and he gave me signs and then there’s others that say I don’t want to ask God because I feel it is right. Now here I am; still in love with him, still in pain, but trusting GOD to send whomever he has for me. If it wasn’t going to come to pass, it would not of been said. If I want a godly relationship, God needed to change his heart first. I had been praying for a companion and I somehow mistook the first guy who hit on me as a message that God had sent him for me, ignoring the various ‘signs’ and ‘warnings’ from my loved ones telling me how he was not the right one for me. Who was I speaking to and who was answering me? Still, I’m open to other possibilities. Here’s what I truly believe: God writes your story in such a way that is perfect for you. March 18, 2015 at 5:14 pm. The confirmations were also too specific even down to this guy noticing no one else in the room when I was there. My advice is live your life to the full, give your heart to God, there is a purpose for being single and enjoy that season, Marraige is a different season but also a place of growth, stretching and dying to self. Thank you again for taking the time to read and respond. so I’d love you to join us if it feels like something you’d be interested in. What did God say to you in His word, through His servants etc. Just Beleive in what God can to do!!! My heart doesn’t seem to be in peace and I am not quite sure if I want to marry him. It’s really scary to take the responsibility for our actions and choices but there’s great fruit in that too! Stephanie, I am very happy to hear that you’ve finally found the one. (The Hebrew has both words in the plural, to accord with the … I need to live and let go of my ‘death grip’ on my desire to be married right. Anyways thanks for reading . While I don't think it's wrong to ask for God to reveal your husband in a dream, I would still be careful and trust God to bring your mate in his timing. But I found so much peace in the exact way that you described. One that I thought I knew before dating that guy, but truly didnt understand. So I complied with His order and did not date. but God has made me believe just recently that what I have heard and have been hearing is true. I have, however, come to the realization that it just wasnt right. I am in love with God and as my spiritual journey keeps edifying day by day I want the man I marry to love God above all and share the same spiritual journey for the rest of our lives. Well if you aren’t following God then you got a point…. I keep myself in check with this question: Whom do I fear more — my wife or God? So whatever we do in life, remember to keep God first always, trust him in his guidance, ask him for signs so that you don’t lead yourself to stray(but be ready to receive what you ask) and let him lead you according to his will and the Holy Spirit because God have plans to prosper you, not harm you and plans to give you a hope and a future. Lol ) about many people. So for me it wasn’t that God didn’t say it (and not implying that’s the case for you), I didn’t trust what He said and didn’t realize it at the time. The “Are you my husband?” conversation doesn’t need to happen until you’re well into a dating relationship with someone. God did not permit those relationships to blossom at all. So as long winded and wordy as this comment was…my point is this… because I felt he was different. We both prayed that night while surfing a Christian dating site and both tired of being lonely, that God’s will for us would be the next person who contacted us…We were the next person for each other. I’m sharing this story of how God brought me and my husband together–despite mountains of shyness, living in the boonies, and other challenges–to encourage you with this truth: Our God is a mountain mover.Today, after years of busy, contented singleness, we finally see some romantic action… Finally, that sacred day came. After all this time, I realize that wasn’t God’s will for me because if it was, things would have turned out differently, but I do believe that He used that young man in my life to teach me a few things about what I want in a man and maybe He had to break my heart in order to rebuild it, so that He would get the glory and we would grow closer. “peace patience kindness gentleness, self control” and to love everyone they talk to even if they are the hardest to love. Hi Kimmy. Kate, I am in agreement with you about God not telling us who to marry. Thank you! If I move forward I’m afraid I will be miserable but if I don’t marry him I’m afraid I’ll miss whatever blessing and ministry that may result from our union. I have been asking God to help me to see my husband the way he sees him.
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